Educate None Grieving Mother Who Never Lose Their Child To Death
I will like to share with everyone a mother's comment she receive from a group I am apart of call Grieving Mother.
This mother post her pain about missing her daughter a person made a negative comment about quite posting depressive drama abut her daughter
dying. You know people like that it is okay to express their negative drama about their child who is still on this earth but a grieving mother cannot. People like this think it is okay to put their personal business, like their bad relationships, money problems, pictures that they in the hospital and other thing but a grieving mother express her pain of losing her child is bad. Like mothers who want to talk about their living child. A grieving mother want to do the same. Because their child is not on this earth does mean that their love is gone for their child. If anything it is more painful.
dying. You know people like that it is okay to express their negative drama about their child who is still on this earth but a grieving mother cannot. People like this think it is okay to put their personal business, like their bad relationships, money problems, pictures that they in the hospital and other thing but a grieving mother express her pain of losing her child is bad. Like mothers who want to talk about their living child. A grieving mother want to do the same. Because their child is not on this earth does mean that their love is gone for their child. If anything it is more painful.
Do you think a grieve mother want to hear you go on about your child? The nerve of the women telling this grieving mother to quite posting about her daughter dying. The mother better hope she is never lose her child. Some people or disconnected to grieving mother feeling until it happen to them.
I was told today to quit posting depressive drama about
Ash dying. I gotta guess I post too much on my page for other people to handle.
So I guess I need to stop posting about her, I didn't realize how it affected
other people.
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Shelley Dreiling Smith My heart says
post whatever you want whenever you want. Nobody has the right to tell you what
to do. But I know that I personally have backed off from posting too much out
to everyone because I want to avoid those heartless types of comments. Hugs,
Momma. None of this is fair. 
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Laura Kearnes Saville It's your page;
post what you want!
Jackie Boyer So far I haven't had
anyone being rude about me posting about my daughter jen and I pray they don't
because of my son who loved his sister he will go after anyone that says
anything about her he watched over her in life and it hasn't changed since her
death he said he will always protect her and her name
Patti Davner Thornhill It's your
page! Tell them if it's too depressing to unfriend you. We face this every
waking hour.
Carol Callahan I to was told by my
own mother who is almost 80 I was so hurt and tomorrow marks his third month
that he has left us my youngest son Colby I miss him so much and I feel so all
alone lonely 
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Peggy Moncher It's your page...post
away. Our children are with us forever....ask these people which one of their
children they want to do without.
Chanda Lynn Foreman You post away,
who the hell cares what they think
Carolyn Ivey My son passed away he
was 28 due to car accident yr.2001 the holidays are still hard i have 2
daughter the youngest one passed 1979 at the hosp. she was 2 days old my living
daughter who i love very much and i pray for her every night God keep her
safe...See More
Jane Penney You post what you want to
post you are hurting and you have every right to speak about your child hugs
mama
Vicky Kanke If people are
uncomfortable with your posts then you need to unfriend them .your grief is not
about them .it's for you ,to help you .don't worry about what they think
Amy Nicole Sheets its YOUR PAGE. not
theirs ! if you need or want to post about her. then go ahead.
Janice Mitchell Ihry That happened to
me too. Funny thing is these pple didnt have any children so they dont have a
clue till they walk in our shoes. You post all u want ok...
Mary Louise Hopkins You should get
them off your facebook and do what you need to do to cope.
Vicki Miller-jenner No! You do not
need to stop posting because of ignorant, selfish people! No one has the right
to tell you that! If they don't like it, don't read it!
Teresa Balusek Hearn Keep posting,
you will find out who your true friends and family are. GOD BLESS YOU...
Jackie Rowan Don't ever stop posting.
Just block them. Don't give up all we have left because someone doesn't
understand. Just block them and keep on remembering, keep on loving and KEEP ON
POSTING!!! ~ 
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Patricia Peden Post anything and
everything you want to share. Hugs to you
Jeanette Benage You post as much as
you want I do I have a rip page for my Kayla.I talk to her a lot on there
Cyndi Nichols Don't ever stop posting
about your child. NOONE has a right to say something like that to you. For me
it keeps my sons memory alive. Post all you want.
Patti O'Luanaigh Keep posting!!! It
doesn't matter what others say or think about it, your posting is necessary,
important, and healing, and in your heart and soul you know it's right. Keep
your child's memory alive in any way you choose...and keep on posting!!!
xoxoxoxoxox
Sylvia Sorenson Deserly You write and
post whatever you want to say and as often as you want about your child.we who
have lost a child are the only ones who really understand
Kimbera Lichner Sounds like you need
to unfriend some people if they are family or not and post whatever you want to
help yourself. Don't worry about others. They have no idea what you are
thinking or feeling. Only you do. {{{{ <3}}}}
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Becky Green Bowman If people don't
want to read your posts then let them see fewer of them or unfriend you. I will
say that since my son died on April 18th this year I have only posted once or
twice after posting his funeral info. No one has been rude to me because I
haven't given them a chance. However, I'm a teacher so I am always careful what
I post. Kids can be cruel and my heart is too fragile right now.
Donna Moore I rarely post on my
page,seems like no one wants to know,my son did live for 28 yrs!
Dee Kalata Please don't let people
tell you not to post about your daughter. It is important that you keep her
memory alive. Hugs to you.
Margaret Shaffer They should care how
it effects u. Maybe just post on grieving mother's page. People can b so
uncaring
Zira Pereira DaSilva You should not
stop please post whatever makes you feel better or what you feel in heart that
you want to post of your daughter, i do it all the time... if people dont like
it i invite them to delete me... our pain is the greatest pain in the world... ...See More
Zira Pereira DaSilva big
huggggggggggggggg for you
Jenni Doll Post what you want. My
posting is my therapy. If people don't like it. Then delete me or scroll on
past. Your page. Post what you want.
Jodi Mills Some left my page others I
deleted and the 50 that are left are pretty quiet on my page. I'm lucky if I
get 3 likes when I post about my son...always the same people. To hell with
them..I rant and scream my pain once and a while on my page. Having sites like
this is what keeps me a bit more sane.
Judy Diamond Post away please ....we
are all here for you on this page ,Hun ..
Betty S. Elliott OMG someone needs to
be unfriended, that is your child and you are entitled to keep the memory alive
as long as you need too. I wish someone would try and tell me to let go of my
child
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Mindy Kirby post away thats what we
are all here for. we may not know u personally but feel what you are feeling!
Cheryl Bowen Screw them. They can
unfollow you. ..
Kathy Rearick Hiestand Don't stop its
your right...
Cheri Bibber That's why we have THIS
site - we never tired of hearing about it, no questions are looked down on and
'normals' will never understand. Even the ones that try
Holli Scheetz Keep posting what you
feel you need to. It's about you and how you feel about her, not other people.
That's pretty much all I post about, my 23-year old daughter I lost on May 23rd
of this year. I haven't been told to not post about her but I wouldn't listen
to that anyway. We need to grieve how we feel we need to and not how others
think we should, especially from people who haven't lost a child.
Lucy Cedillo Don't listen to them..
We have to grieve and deal with the lossof our children.. they can stop reading
ur page or better yet stop following you..
Verda Mosier It's your page, post
what you want.
Rebecca Jackson I was told that i
should get over my miscarriage that it wasn't like i actually had the baby. I
then informed them which one of they kids would they want to b taken away and
how long should they mourn them. They usually block me after that
Caroline Fleck Taylor Barradell It
doesn't matter it is your child and a loss is a loss. Massive hug xx
Rebecca Jackson People are always
cruel intentional or unintentionally it still hurts
Write a reply...
Debra Schaal Tell them dont like it
get off ur page do as u wish
Amy Aileen Riel Or you need to cut
the people who are telling that.
Na Johnson People like that are very
insensitive because they are emotionally disconnected to mothers who lost their
child. They have no type of connection like us mothers are grieving and craving
the touch of our children we carry. Some people who have their chi...See More
Janet Chapnick Fuck them I put up
anything I want about my son if they don't like it delete them that's what I do
now
Sending u hugs and prayers
Sending u hugs and prayers
Write a reply...
Lynne Beaumont I think it affects
family members sometimes but unless you have lost a child you don't understand.
We need each other when we are feeling a bit weak. You keep saying whatever you
want to say anytime .. Hugs xxx
Lisa Rigione I am so sorry someone is
so insensitive, you do not have to stop posting , I post about my son & to
my son everyday if it bothers anyone screw them hide or unfriend me .. you are
Ash's Mom , no one hurts more than you , people who haven't lost a child ...See More
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Maureen McMillan Labuschagne Just
delete them off your facebook page and carry on posting. They obvioulsy havent
lost a child. its our way of keeping the memories of our child alive.
Chantel Botha Nope. If they dont like
it they know how to remove themselves.
Laura Stockwell Keep posting if it
helps you.Start deleting the people who complain.Hugs hon.
Jackie Marie You can post as much as
you want. People don't understand unless it's happened to them. I'm here if you
ever need someone to talk to. I'm dealing with my first. without my son. I know
your pain. God bless. Love and hugs sent your way...
Maureen McMillan
Labuschagne Just delete them off your facebook page and
carry on posting. They obvioulsy havent lost a child. its our way of keeping
the memories of our child alive.
Chantel Botha Nope.
If they dont like it they know how to remove themselves.
Laura Stockwell Keep
posting if it helps you.Start deleting the people who complain.Hugs hon.
Jackie Marie You
can post as much as you want. People don't understand unless it's happened to
them. I'm here if you ever need someone to talk to. I'm dealing with my first.
without my son. I know your pain. God bless. Love and hugs sent your way...
Pamela Francis
Brown Go right ahead Na....that's why I shared it
here....unfortunately we already know this so we have to educate others who are
not in our hell on earth....hugs to you too....
Na Johnson Yes,
we do have to educate others who are not in our hell on earth They just cannot
imagine how are life change in a big way. We have to go through this along as
we are breathing on the earth. It is like an ongoing nightmare for me. I am on
this earth all alone. My son was my only child. Thank you so much!
Pamela Francis
Brown You're welcome Angel Mama.....
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